http://drsanthan.com/?p=405 The Lighter Living Blog Thu, 05 Aug 2010 16:47:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://drsanthan.com/?p=405&cpage=1#comment-66 chavi bhargava Mon, 09 Nov 2009 07:28:20 +0000 http://drsanthan.com/?p=405#comment-66 I was evaluating the relationships in my life and I have always felt that I tend to put people on a pedestal and then when the pedestal is removed it is terrible. Having to deal with the pain makes one avoid getting into relationships..but then like you have mentioned ..the pain should lead to self awareness and frankly self awareness and transcending is the only way. But sometimes one needs a mentor, a guru to lead from darkness to light. I was evaluating the relationships in my life and I have always felt that I tend to put people on a pedestal and then when the pedestal is removed it is terrible. Having to deal with the pain makes one avoid getting into relationships..but then like you have mentioned ..the pain should lead to self awareness and frankly self awareness and transcending is the only way. But sometimes one needs a mentor, a guru to lead from darkness to light.

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