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Lighter Relationships

Sometimes we screw up. Really really make a mess, mind you, with the best intentions at heart. And it hurts like a hot knife to know that I screwed up. And that my actions have contributed to damaging a cherished relationship. I have been learning about relationships, and what makes them work. And I have [...]

Can Relationships be Light?

A difficult relationship has made me ask a lot of questions lately, and I have been wondering what to write about. Meanwhile a reader emailed me wondering whether relationships can be light at all. As I asked myself that question, my inner voice gave me an emphatic message. And this is going to sound like [...]

Acceptance Worksheet

This is the 3 step Acceptance Worksheet. For more details please read the previous post. Enjoy your relationships in a new Light and please share your experiences. You can work directly off the screen with a pen and paper, or print out the worksheet. Wishing you Lightness. Acceptance Worksheet Publish at Scribd or explore others: [...]

Gateways to You

Relationships are gateways to self discovery. You may have heard this before, as I have, and this thought has fascinated me. I wonder often how this works, how exactly relationships help us discover ourselves. Do we learn by observing successful relationships? Or by experiencing failure? Is there something more to all of this? I decided [...]

Take a moment to Connect

Can you name the last five prime ministers of India? Can you name the first three people to captain the Indian cricket team? Those questions had you thinking a bit, didn’t they? If you got them right, congratulations! And if you couldn’t recall the answers, never mind. You’ll have another chance. Now. Can you name [...]

Lighter Relationships Workshop

The first Lighter Living Workshop received great reviews from participants. One thing they wanted us to improve on was to get more specific with our product. This got our brains working overtime to create a workshop that is focussed on relationships. The quality of our relationships at home and work determine the quality of our [...]

The Key To Successful Relationships – Pedestal Management

Each of us have a pretty good idea about what we would like in a partner; a checklist of qualitites that will make the ideal relationships. I remember when I was single. I thought I would meet my ideal girl in a bookstore (wipe that smile off your face!), beautiful, intelligent, independent, a great conversationalist, [...]